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“Xanet Pailet’s book offers a modern, refreshing in
into what all women should become aware of: that they are made
for love. And that the art and cultivation of pleasure is the
language of love. And that, if they don't learn it, and take the
responsibility to teach it to their partners, the consciousness
of the world will remain stagnant. Living an Ormic Life
teaches us to become aware in love and to channel pleasure as a
means of conscious awakening. There is no better mission. And
this book will show you the way.”
―Margot Anand, World’s leading authority on Tantra and
International Bestselling author of The Art of Sexual Ecstasy,
The Art of Everyday Ecstasy, and Love, Sex and Awakening
"Xanet is a wise guide that you can trust to lead you the
pleasurable path of erotic empowerment. She’s been there herself
and offers you a practical that you can follow to get to the
land of loving yourself, shame-free sex and expanded outrageous
orms! You deserve to feel this fantastic!"
-Sheri Winston, CNM, RN, LMT. Wholistic Sexuality Teacher,
award-winning author of Women's Anatomy of Arousal and Succulent
SexCraft
"What I love the most about this book, is the way in which Xanet
masterfully weaves in her own story in such a vulnerable way. She
makes it completely relatable to every woman’s experience, and
provides all of us a path forward to living an ormic life."-
Sex With Emily
“A woman who's been there--out of touch with her own capacity for
erotic connection and pleasure--and healed herself, tackles all
the stumbling blocks for other people's inability to touch this
deep source of joy. Fraught social messages, shame, and trauma
impact so many of us, but as Xanet Pailet shows, there IS a path
out of that thicket and into intimacy, deep sexual pleasure, and
a newly-awakened body. Take this journey with her and be amazed
at the destination.”
―Carol Queen PhD, Staff Sexologist, Good Vibrations
“Through her own sexual healing journey and those of others,
author and intimacy coach Xanet Pailet takes us back to a place
where we can all develop the courage to recl our sexual
desires. Living an Ormic Life is bound to become a go-to book
for therapists, healers and for all of us.”
―Louann Brizendine, MD, New York Times Best Selling Author of The
Female Brain and The Male Brain.
“The parts of this book that touched me deeply, and that will
reach out and touch the hearts of so many women, are the moments
when Xanet shares her personal journey of growth and
transformation. Her vulnerability, raw honesty, and deep desire
to learn and teach what is possible for women in the erotic realm
touches on the hopes and insecurities we all have. By sharing
those parts that we feel we are supposed to hide, she fearlessly
invites women to know and accept themselves fully so they can
cl their birthright of pleasure.”
―Celeste Hirschman, MA, Co-Founder Somatica Institute, author of
Cockfidence and Making Love Real
“Can you imagine your life and loving to be abundant with
creative energy, confidence, inner freedom and good feelings
about yourself, a state of being where old wounding no longer
rules you and your sexual experience? This book contains the keys
to unlock your sexual potential, open yourself to more bliss and
let go of what no longer serves you. Xanet’s practices and real
life stories will help you to heal any sexual wounds, and move
beyond shame into a powerful connection with yourself,
transforming your entire life into an everyday ormic
experience. While presenting a myriad of expertise and
information, its easy-to-read style captivates the heart and
soul, and gently invites the reader to a journey of
transformation and healing.
A must-read for anyone willing to expand their horizon and live
more ormically every day.”
―Lokita Carter, founder of Ecstatic Living Institute, creator of
best-selling video programs on Tantra and Chakra Wisdom
Meditation
“This book is an excellent blend of personal stories, solid
research, useful ideas, and supportive suggestions. If you're
struggling to figure out how to connect to your pleasure, make
sex exciting, and deepen your relationship, there's plenty of
great information here for you and your partner.”
―Charlie Glickman, Ph.D., Sex and Relationship coach, author of
The Ultimate
Guide to Prostate Pleasure
“Unabashed reality, heart-felt empathy, keen expertise -- all
three combine in this breakthrough work by Xanet Pailet. As a
Sexual Abuse Recovery Coach, I am always on the lookout for
quality resources that will support my clients in finding their
way to freedom in this area of their lives, and Living an
Ormic Life is now at the top of my reading list for survivors
who want to recl their sexuality.”
―Rachel Grant, Author, “Beyond Surviving: The Final Stages in
Recovery from Sexual Abuse” and Beyond Surviving Podcast.
"A true gem! Xanet's book is filled with stories about
overcoming struggles with sex and relationships to embrace an
ormic life. It speaks to the heart of real life challenges
people face and offers easy to use exercises to inspire you back
to pleasure."
~ Caroline Carrington, Pleasure Expert & Co-Founder of Sarasa
Tantra, www.CarolineCarrington.com
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About the Author
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Xanet Pailet is a recovered New York City care
lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades.
After experiencing her own sexual healing and awakening in 2011,
she transitioned her career into a full time sex and intimacy
coach, writer, blogger, and teacher. She works with individuals
and couples to empower them around their sexuality and strengthen
relationship and intimacy skills. Xanet is particularly
passionate about working with women, men and couples who are
sexually disconnected. Through her work, and the many tools that
she offers, she helps them recl their pleasure and transform
their relationships and their lives. Xanet is a certified
Somatica Sex and Intimacy Coach, Sexological Body Worker,
Holistic Pelvic Care Practitioner, and Tantra Educator. She is on
the faculty of the Ecstatic Living Institute and the Somatica
Institute and teaches regularly at Good Vibrations in San
Francisco. She offers 1:1 coaching via Skype or in person in the
Bay Area. She also offers online group coaching programs and
speaks regularly at national and local conferences and events.
She lives in beautiful and serene Marin County, CA. Connect with
Xanet at www.powerofpleasure.com.
Dr. Emily Morse has been voted the #1 dating & sex expert to
follow on Twitter by Esquire & Stylecaster. Her Podcast: Sex with
Emily, is downloaded over a million times every month. Morse is
now a sex talk pioneer of one of the most successful brands in
the field of sexual ― leading the charge in modern day sex
education, turning it on it’s heels in ways no one has ever
before. Emily served as co-host of the famed Loveline radio show
featuring Dr. Drew Pinsky, made appearances on national programs
like The Today Show and The Doctors and even starred in a Bravo
series about sex and relationships experts finding love called
Miss Advised.
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