The bestselling authors of the classic Difficult Conversations teach us how to turn evaluations, advice, criticisms, and
coaching into productive listening and learning
We swim in an ocean of feedback. Bosses, colleagues, customersbut also family, friends, and in-lawsthey all have
suggestions” for our performance, parenting, or appearance. We know that feedback is essential for healthy
relationships and professional developmentbut we dread it and often dismiss it.
That’s because receiving feedback sits at the junction of two conflicting human desires. We do want to learn and grow.
And we also want to be accepted just as we are right now. Thanks for the Feedback is the first book to address this
tension head on. It explains why getting feedback is so crucial yet so challenging, and offers a powerful framework to
help us take on life’s blizzard of off-hand comments, annual evaluations, and unsolicited advice with curiosity and
The business world spends billions of dollars and millions of hours each year teaching people how to give feedback more
effectively. Stone and Heen argue that we’ve got it backwards and show us why the smart money is on educating receivers
in the workplace and in personal relationships as well.
Coauthors of the international bestseller Difficult Conversations, Stone and Heen have spent the last ten years working
with businesses, nonprofits, governments, and families to determine what helps us learn and what gets in our way. With
humor and clarity, they blend the latest insights from neuroscience and psychology with practical, hard-headed advice.
The book is destined to become a classic in the world of leadership, organizational behavior, and education.