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Beyond Consequences, Logic, and Control covers in detail the effects of trauma on the body-mind and how trauma alters
children's behavioral responses. The first four chapters help parents and professionals clearly understand the
neurological research behind the basic model given in this book, deemed, 'The Stress Model.' While scientifically based
in research, it is written in an easy to understand and easy to grasp format for anyone working with or parenting
children with severe behaviors. The next seven chapters are individually devoted to seven behaviors typically seen with
attachment-challenged children. These include lying, stealing, hoarding and gorging, aggression, defiance, lack of eye
contact, and yes, even a chapter that talks candidly about how parents appear hostile and angry when they work to simply
maintain their families from reaching complete states of chaos. Each of these chapters talks in depth on these specific
behaviors and gives vivid and contrasting examples of how this love-based approach works to foster healing and works to
develop relationships, as opposed to the fear-based traditional attachment parenting approaches that are being advocated
in today's attachment field. The authors end with a Parenting Bonus Section: true testimonials from parents who have
been able to make significant changes in their homes with this model of parenting, giving real-life examples of how they
have been able to find the healing, peace, and love that they had been seeking prior to working through the techniques
outlined in this book.